Abundance of Connections

My renewed journey toward recognizing abundance began the day I sent the first blitz announcing that I intend to notice and create abundant experiences in my life. I deliberately started carving time for such experiences so that I could share them with you, my beautiful readers.

My son was off of school for a few days and I didn’t have coaching calls booked, so I decided to connect with my girlfriends during my free time. I am grateful for the richness of the time we spend together. It makes me feel expansive and refreshed to connect with these beautiful women, each with different gifts to offer.

During the last few days, I went to a movie called, “Couples Retreat,” with my friend Cheryl and we laughed like small children. Of course, it helped that we chose a comedy. Cheryl is the ultimate fun queen.

To nurture my deeper being and share my soul with one who is willing to show her own, I went to see my friend Erin. She was part of a mastermind group I facilitated a year ago. What can I say? I cannot help but feel immensely grateful for the openness and trust that allowed us both to feel safe and vulnerable with one another. The drive to Erin’s place is about two hours from where I live and visually attractive and scenic. I felt grateful for the nature we have here in Vancouver and suburbs. Lush green fields and winding roads, misty weather and clouds; it’s all very enchanting and romantic. My husband was driving when I said, “It would be nice to come here alone for a honeymoon.” My eight year old in the back interjected, “What about me?” I laughed feeling easy and content.

I have an abundance of connections with girlfriends in my personal time and I also get to do business with beautiful women. I visited my favorite salon where they do bleach free hair colour and enjoyed connecting with Chloe, who is also my client. Chloe’s passion is to create a beautiful environment that inspires women to honour their inner beauty. Her idea of beauty does not come from a narcissistic media point of view but from the depth of a woman’s inner character. Creating a pleasant work environment for her staff is also important to her. We are set to help her franchise her concept so that she can serve women at large. Going to Chloe’s salon is not like going to another salon, it is an experience. Her walls are full of the portraits and the place is decorated with exclusive furnishing specially designed by the most talented artists. The environment is visually inviting to those who enters the salon. Rich aromatherapy scents ignites your senses and there is no smell of bleach or other common hair products in Chloe’s salon.

I am grateful for my assistant, Donna, who is diligent. Donna never forgets anything. I can confidently delegate work to her and go out for the day, check it on my blackberry knowing that newsletters will be sent and that Donna will do a great job.

My friend Jamie is also my editor. She is kind and compassionate. We don’t only talk about work, but what is going on with us personally as well. This keeps things more real and makes it feel less like work.

How rich life can be when we are surrounded by feminine energy and create opportunities for one another to serve and connect at the same time!

I would encourage you to notice the abundance of connections in your life. If you don’t have them, set the intention of creating such connections in your life.

Looking back, I have been in environments where I didn’t feel accepted by other women. Because my soul craved that connection, I made an effort to cultivate relationships with women who would enrich my soul. I feel very abundant in the support and love of women in my life and wish the same for you.

To get started write down the qualities you would like to attract in a girlfriend or girlfriends. You can have different girlfriends for different needs. Remember, you give as much as you receive when you set an intention to attract someone into your life, who can help you meet your needs.

Ask yourself:

  • Would you like someone fun, deep, funny or vulnerable?
  • Who in your life has those qualities?
  • When will you connect with them?

Make an effort to reach out to someone so that you can start to ignite the energy of abundance in your life today! Create a beautiful intention card that will put the vibration in motion and help you form such connections.

When I set my intention, this is what I wrote:
I want to create an environment where I can be totally myself. I can say what I feel and think. I want to be with women who inspire and support each other’s dream. These women are positive, secure and encouraging!

It’s magical when we fully understand what we can manifest.

I end with giving thanks for the abundance of connection in my life while continuing to create new connections as I grow and expand into my full being!

Zahra is a Professional Coach and Abundance Expert. She works with female creative entrepreneurs to help them market their businesses by taking internally inspired actions. Zahra helps women connect with their inner abundance to create outer results. Zahra believes that women, through their feminine essence, can be truly successful in life and business. Using the principles of Law of Attraction, Zahra teaches women how to get in touch with their passionate inner feminine wisdom and create effortlessly abundant lives. To watch Zahra speak about 'the power of gratitude,' visit To book a complimentary coaching session give Zahra a call at 604.582.7759 or visit our web at

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